The Official Blog of Tara Marie Segundo, M.A.

We all set goals and we all want the best for our lives.  Many of us fall prey to self-sabotage and become our own worst enemies.  Why?  What are the barriers that hold us back, and how can we break free?  These barriers lie between your life right now and the life you want.

If you missed Barrier #1, click here to read Break Through the Barrier of Fear!

If you lack self-worth, at some point in your life someone taught you that you are not worthy.  As a child, we believe that which we are told by others. Many of us were given messages that we are not worthy and have less value than others. We internalize the idea and buy into the lie. The good news is that anything that can be learned also can be unlearned.

You were put on this earth to be great and to make a contribution to the world. No one is here just taking up space. Bishop T.D. Jakes says that we have to step out of our HISTORY and into our DESTINY. You have a gift, and your duty is to identify your gift and do something good in the world with it.

Barrier #2: Feeling Unworthy 

If the subconscious self-limiting belief that holds you back is lack of self-worth, only YOU can fix this. This is the tricky part. No one else can make you feel worthy or give you self-esteem, as both come from the self.